Wantstobehealthy I am SO GLAD you have her figured out and you did not even respond! She is textbook NPD and NO response is the BEST response ever! My sister is NPD and used me as supply her entire life (as well as my Mom). After my Mom's passing in 2010, there is absolutely NO reason I need to have a relationship with NPD sister anymore. And there isn't one. Only an occasional text or email response to something stupid she tries to connect about. And it's only a friendly/professional SHORT response. It has been SO LIBERATING to not have to deal with her dynamics anymore! Oh... and she's a miserable alcoholic that hides it (or tries to) but people are on to her.