Zoso, I would like to read that book.
Vale. that's just wrong, to keep it from someone who cares.
Grief is something we need to do and pay attention to if we are to heal and not be frozen by the pain.
I don't grieve well, or maybe I do, because the pain comes through and brings tears and such overwhelming sadness, so I try to do it in small doses almost giving myself a time limit each time. I talk to the person I am grieving, getting angry or saying things I wish I'd said, and that helps me to walk through the pain and relieve my soul.
Hugs