Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
Personal question you don't have to answer if you don't want to. I know money issues can turn a family into crap. Have then lent you large amounts of money and having pent up resentments about it? Have other things happened that have turned them against you in some way?
It just seems like there is more to it, but this is so unlike my family that I cannot even imagine it I guess. I am just so sorry and certainly not trying to let them off the hook, just curious how people could act so awful.
You ask the Game Dynamics?
The siblings are aligning with the the bully, so as not be bullied themselves.
If "our" wantabe is made the scapegoat, and they go along, since they are they are then considered allies.
Otherwise they risk the same treatment as wantabe has (and will continue) to experience.