The fact is I will sell them. Eventually. I just can't believe my mother would be so callous as to suggest it right now and tell me to do so to give my kids a nice Xmas (yes financially I am struggling and for her to remind me of that is so obnoxious). Emotionally too it's just not something I'm ready to do and she still 25+ yrs later has her engagement ring despite being divorced for 25 yrs. It's so goddamn out of line for her to say anything to me about it or at least to do so in the way she did. Unreal.