The part that I hate the most of this email isn't about me-- it's her reference to "my granddaughters".
To her my siblings and I were all objects to use. My sister was her mirror and my sister tried to become what my mother wanted her to be. I could not play the game so well so I was all that my mother hated in herself and that was projected on to me. And my brothers were made into her care takers after she destroyed my father and alienated him from my brothers...
And now she refers to my daughters not by their names or as my daughters but as "my granddaughters" like they are possessions to her...
Maybe I am reading too much into it but I don't think I am....
She is a sick woman who I really ought to pity-- I'm just too pissed off to pity her right now..