I am done with counseling from now on with my npd stbah, I tried to "coparent" while going to counseling with him, but am moving to parallel parenting and stopping counseling until I am court ordered. Be aware, mine manipulated the therapist quite easily and she was even my therapist... unbelievable. I am learning the hard way.... My advice, smile and nod and talk about your recovery... because he will use anything against you. Mine got so much satisfaction from making me upset, please learn from me and stay calm as a cucumber no matter what....then he may get bored and move on to a different target. I will send positive energy your way....