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Old 11-03-2013, 01:31 PM
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Johno1967
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Sorry about the bad turn on the home front. Good to hear you are meeting the challenge one day at a time. Good to hear you are back at meetings. Your story got me thinking. I'm trying to be as mindful as possible of my defects and emotional sobriety as well as emotional dependance. My marriage always seems to be on rocky ground. Where before I reacted with resentment I've tried to leave it in Gods hands and not get in the way. The result is a sort of unresolved stalemate and Cold War. It's also left me indecisive. I want to start going to meetings not only to help my recovery but also to help my marriage. My wife is against that idea though and I'm too gutless to make a stand on it or any other burning issues in order to avoid an argument and blistering resentment. Catch 22. At least coming to this site helps me capture some of what you get out of meetings.
I'm hoping that in time the answers will come if I don't force them.
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