Hammer, thank you for the suggestion! I feel so paralyzed because she's cut us all off, but I will get over there, cook, clean, do laundry, help in any way I can. It's a relief to know that they may not only be open to it, but appreciate the help too. I haven't heard yet whether she got admitted and/or for how long. Will try to communicate tomorrow. Thank you all for your input. It helps. A lot.
