I totally agree with Rita on your talk with your dad, Amy. I used to tell my mom (God rest her soul) that she had every right to voice her opinion to me about something in my life once. ONCE. But any more than that, and it became disrespectful of me and my right to make my own choices.
I'm so inspired by everyone here, and how plugged-in they are to their recoveries. You all really do make my own recovery program better!