Originally Posted by
Florence But there's that little voice in the back of my mind telling me I'm a fraud and that I'm still and always will be a loser.
Wow, Florence. I wish I had great guidance to offer but I have no experience with these kind of FOO dynamics.
I do however, want to point out that the part I quoted above couldn't be FURTHER from the impression you make through your posts & sharing here on SR. It is literally the exact opposite of what *I* think of you - you are strong & beautiful & a True Warrior in life. What a shame that they can't see past their own dysfunction to appreciate who you REALLY are... it really speaks to their own insecurities and lack of awareness.