The other day I was talking to the childminder of a kid who goes to preschool with my daughter. We had been seeing my ex on thursday afternoons and she asked if we were going to see him that afternoon (of if we wanted to hang out with them at the playground). I told her that we would not be seeing him, that the previous night
he was very mad that I wouldn't take our daughter to see him at the grocery store half an hour from our house at 7:30 at night. This lady just said "oh he sounds like a loser" I was shocked! I kind of felt like defending him but I just let it go. I still can't believed she said that.