((Blindsided)) I love the way you put that, I agree with your earlier statement, and stand by it with you. It is a realization all that has happened during the relapse. I know everyone has their own list, some a lot longer than mine, but it hit me tonight like you were saying in the other thread, why some people do a double take when they read our list, and based on their experiences, compare, give comments. One more thing I realized, if I hadnt known him for so long then it would be more confusing for me to figure all this out, I feel like I have a marker to go by.
((Incitingsilence)) Thank you. You are right about accepting him as he is, and I have learned a lot about him during this experience and Im sure I will learn more. I have learned a lot about myself, and I am continuing on that path. Im going to keep going to counseling even after he leaves rehab (in a few weeks). I am constantly growing and changing, I hope for the better.