Thank you so much to all of you this has been a massive help to me, im just stuck in this possition not knowing what to do my mum is my best friend and id do anything for her but I have to think about my precious little one, this is going to be hard but the biggest thing I need to realise is I cant help her and none of this was my fault I just hope by doing this she sees what shes doing and wakes up and realises forever holding on to something that wont happen