thank you so much for your help, sometimes i cant help but think its my fault. i know it isnt and i also no i cant help her but i still try, but this time i need to put my baby first because if she falls over drunk with it and hurts my baby :/ i cant put it in that position, me and my partner are going to be moving in to his parents house until we have saved to find our own place, its just going to be hard to block out my mum shes the best person i know when shes sober, its just having her sober thats the trouble just lately i love her with everything i have and i hate its come down to this.