I slipped up twice since I first gained sobriety in Sept 2012. My husband sees that I am trying. Not to brush the slips under the rug, but I keep him informed about the disease, he attends AA mtgs. with me, so he knows what is going on. He reads all the information that I bring home from my counsellor, I keep him involved. Bottom line is he knows Alcoholisim is a disease, ang together we have agreed to fight this disease. We gave beeb together fir 22 years, drinking took hold of me for 5 and 1/2years, he knows thats not who I really am, he had many years of tasting who I really was and he knows that we both want that back. Keep her informed and as involved as you can and hopefully things will work out.