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Old 10-04-2013, 04:22 PM
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thislonelygirl
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Thanks all. Suckered into a date night that was his idea.
I figured wth. Big mistake!
Normally I dont make plans with him...if I can avoid it mostly because of being stuck in the agreement to go through with the plans and then their utter failure. Leaving me hitting my head against the wall.
So glad I handled the crazy better than I would have in the past.
I kept responding to a minimum. ...no arguing back ...I left to bed and he left the house. I got good sleep despite him taking off and being gone for who knows how long.
I think at the point when we began watching the movie and I realized he had beenwdrinking (clearly not shutting up!) I just wanted to get through the movie with as much enjoyment as I could. ...I did want to see it and I knew if I cut it off midway he would have went bizerk anyhow.
Normally or should I say here lately I dont watch movies with him or make plans if I can avoid it.
I don't make "promises" I cant keep with an alcoholic. If that makes any sense.
One of his rantings last night was bashing me about being in alanon.
Then talking to himself half the night. Could hear him in the next room.
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