1. At a minimum, get an injunction against the A drinking prior to or during possession.
2. You can see if he'll agree to Soberlink or ETG testing or if a court would order it. XAs, especially NPDs, will resist testing and find ways to evade it.
3. Knowing I cannot protect my child is my biggest struggle. I pray for God's mercy and protection of my child. I try to replace worry about the future with thankfulness for my present blessings. But it is really, really hard.
4. If your laws don't protect kids' best interests - for example giving 50/50 time automatically - call legislators to ask for a change in the law to not automatically presume extended visitation if a parent has a history of substance abuse.