Really great thread. Thanks for the story PT. I still argue with myself all the time so no need to bring in a third party (hmmm..tho perhaps I need a mediator
. New relationships have a way of bringing all your old war wounds to surface so I certainly understand how ensuring your sobriety is solid before attempting.
When I get to that place...I have no idea what I want. I can't imagine wanting someone who does not share a similar belief system or who hasn't wrestled their own demons and won. I certainly wouldn't want to be with anyone where alcohol is any kind of priority in their lives. Once I figure out who I am and what I want...guess I will know. Nevertheless..I'm not looking forward to what you're friends are going through.
I think Boleo sums it up best.
