Winnie,
I would bet that more people "support" you than you realize. If it is a small town, and you think people know, there are probably more people that admire your "strength" but would give you a high five when you reclaim your life.
I'm in a small town, I know how you feel. While I'm not a well known local politician, we have a reputable business. Re your home and bankruptcy: many people are there, in fact, it may cause people to respect you a little more for holding your head high as you struggle.
JMO