And the final decision is that he is going to go. I feel bad but I am getting advice to not help in this case. The person in question hasn't stopped drinking completely. And my sponsor basically told me that one its a risk to me and my progress, which I can see I knew going in that there wasn't any benefit to me except maybe helping someone else. But also I may be hinder him by helping. Protecting him from the misery his continued drinking has caused is keeping him from realizing that he needs to stop. We'll see how it goes for him. I am fine, I just worry a little about him.