The court is insane... There IS a restraining order against me, I have the house EXCEPT for one night each weekend when xAH is allowed to stay there with the girls. The two things make NO sense at all. I agree... My lawyer says that the judge is not concerned with me or with xAH. They are seeing what is best for the girls and since xAH has no where to stay with the girls, he is given access to my house. He is SO afraid of me yet wants to stay in my house, right? I want to scream from a roof that this is insanity. My lawyer is telling me that reacting emotionally to this order as bad as it is will just make me look crazy which xAH alleges anyway, so we are working around it.
Thank GOD the girls therapist is on my side and she is being designated (as long as xAH agrees) as the person who will decide whether this overnight insanity should occur (and she has already said it is ridiculous). So my one saving grace is that she will say it is not to occur and it won't. I hope.