find out the root of his alcoholism
Amy,
It is important for your husband to get some type of counselling for his underlying issues that cause him to drink.eg.childhood.
You are not the reason.he was an alcoholic for many years before you married.He is a very weak,broken individual inside that wants to make you feel like him. that's why he,'s blaming you. So you can feel guilty and have low self-esteem when he goes on a binge so you can feel sorry for him and won't leave him. Its all a game and old lifestyle to him. He's taken your love for granted and its time to start bargaining for him to get some counselling help or you will emotionally/physically distance yourself from him and focus on your own life before you become ill!