Thanks all.
No I kept my bags there . They still are while I make arrangements with family. For atleast a bit.
I left before and it was the best decision for my sanity I could have done. So I know as ridiculous as it is having to do that with your partner its also the best decision to make sometimes.
I feel better but im kicking kyself a little. ..I like to think it just gave me a little more incentive to get healthy. For today im going to enjoy tgis perfect weather away from ah.