Hey Wendy - you having a drink shouldn't be connected to your husband not drinking. He has the problem not you. If your husband is an alcoholic, rest assure he will drink again if he doesn't seek help. Staying dry may last 7 days to a month. Don't beat yourself up for something that's not in your control. I have a drinking problem and my wife is free to have a glass of wine anytime. Her having a glass a wine isn't going to trigger me to drink. People are drinking everywhere. If I go to a restaurant for dinner and can't ask everyone not to have a drink. This is something I need to monitor and manage. Take Care! Don't work too late