I know all too well the consequences of having a drunk wreck n nearly be shoveled off the road into a body bag. Today is being spent at the trauma center with brain surgery. The good news is that my AH has been sober for 2 weeks. His accident was on July 3rd. I thought it would be enough. Maybe having his head bored open with a 1" hole n a hose to drain the blood will do it.
You have my thoughts n prayers.