((((ZoSo))) - I'm sorry for the anniversary, but I do have to admit. I think people come into our lives for a reason, and good or bad? We learn from them.
I also agree with you that we have no right to judge them. I used to do that, but not since I began recovery. Sometimes, the one thing we learn from someone is to "be wary" and I have to admit, I didn't always heed that lesson.
Over the years, I can see why each person came into my life..in hindsight. Those who have passed on? There were times I was angry, but later on, I saw what I had learned from them.
You have been someone who I learn SO much from, admire, and appreciate. Would you be that person without those you've dealt with? Don't know, don't really care, I'm just grateful for what you share on here.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy