sad to be back here again..
i was here in may when my husband came home, out of the clear blue, and asked for help. money had gone missing but he explained it away - he hadn't been acting right but he promised he was just tired. all the lies got to be too much and he knew he was on the verge of getting caught so he caved and told me...off to rehab for 30 days.
fast forward to last night. same old look in his eye, he seems pale..hes too tired to stay up but is walking the house at 3am, he's sick to his stomach and cant eat dinner with my 3 year old and i. ALL signs he gave me before that i overlooked. (we're talking about oxycodone and xanax abuse btw).
So today i ask to drug test and hes currently telling me he wants to leave me anyway, so theres no reason for it. HUH? everything was fine. i think he has something to hide and im heartbroken.
advice?