Gracey -
I'm from Michigan. It is against the law for anyone to try and stop you from calling 911. They will arrest him for that. Call the Domestic Violence Hotline. Susan gave you the number. They will arrest him for every one of the things that you mentioned in your last post. The police will press charges against him - not you. He will be out of the house. You can get a restraining order. Don't wait for him to hurt or kill you. What will your kids do then? No one is suggesting that you leave without your kids. You don't necessarily have to leave. Have him removed.
CALL THE HOT LINE - NOW. DON'T WAIT.
Jo