Hi Gracey,
I'm sorry you are going through this. It sounds like it has escalated to an abusive relationship. I have been in several of those.
I would suggest getting a restraining order. I used to work as a Paralegal for a lawyer and I am going to school to obtain my law degree; any Martial Attorney would probably suggest a Restraining order in these circumstances.
You can file it yourself by simply going down to the Courthouse, they will serve him and he will be required to leave. If he comes back he will be arrested.
I hope you keep yourself safe... ((((HUGS)))))