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Old 08-26-2013, 07:41 PM
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overit263
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Join Date: Aug 2013
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I find that starting to look at things as black and white helps after you've left. Take all the grey matter out...your addict isn't any different than anyone else's addict. I feel like when we throw in all the grey area, we are making excuses for their behavior, or use bad experiences they've had as a reason for their using. Everyone needs to grow, don't beat yourself up for leaving. Be happy from a distance if he succeeds in living a clean life for himself.
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