I'm sorry you're feeling so down.
Honestly, I call all holidays "HALLMARK HOLIDAYS"
Because of slick advertising, we think all special days must be like a Hallmark card, the perfect family around the perfect table, eating perfect food and wearing big smiles.
Your baby is 2 she won't remember the huge party, pile of gifts, etc.
Take your children to a park, play with them at home and just enjoy their sweet little faces...they will grow up all too soon, but WILL remember how much their mommy loves them......