Al-anon and Self
There's something that I've noticed about some people in Al-anon and I wondered if anyone else has noticed this, too.
When we finally start our step work, and we stop focusing on what our A is doing, we start concentrating on our self-care. And that is a good thing.
Has anyone else ever noticed, though, that some Al-anoners get so stuck on their self-care, they become selfish and self-centered and manipulative and sometimes kind of mean and closed-off?
Do we get stuck on Step 4? What is going on?