Geeezzzz, from the guy side of things, I could have just about slipped on a dress and a wig, changed the he to she and we could have been having the same conversation.
Only (minor, really) differences are:
3 Kids,
The Road Trip Vacation was 3 weeks (planned well in advance, she was invited to attend all or some, and also attended none),
and together 13 years.
Other than that, same story, only the names have changed to protect the guilty.
For a too long, never ending soap opera version >>>
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...t-me-well.html
Bottom line.
I set the countdown-timer for 12 months total since return from rehab.
Then enough of this crap.
119 days to go. Not that I am counting.