Originally Posted by
visch1 
I hope I can help even one.
Then why aren't you trying to help a newcomer, instead of coming over here to tell a bunch of happy sober people that we're doing it all wrong? Wouldn't you rather celebrate all that Ken, Fandy, Jess, and the rest of the gang here are doing right?
Which, by the way, I think is one of the greatest things a newcomer can see. I had more than enough bitterness, judgment, doom and gloom when I was drinking. When I arrived here, I was looking for insight and inspiration. A little warmth and humility went a long way, too.
Maybe if you go back and read Ken's original post, you'll see that's exactly what he offered.
