By the time I got home, and he got home, I was so nervous I felt like I was going to pass out.
I told him this.....Do you realize that your drinking has gotten worse since the first of the year? Your tolerance for alcohol has gone up and my tolerance has gone down. I know you are better than this.
No arguments. Nothing. He actually said "thanks for your input"
Anyway, tonight I am taking it further. We will see if I get closer this time to actually telling him that I am leaving.
The whole process of leaving is just going to be so exhausting and I am already sooooo tired that I feel like I don't have the energy to face it. But I know it has to be done.