I'm torn about whether to help him in this way since he already called a dealer within 30 minutes of dropping me off after going to the bank.
what is your boundary around active addiction? you should know as well as anyone that when there is a will there is a way when it comes to crack.
he's FIFTY freakin' years old for pete's sake. he has a job and a mortgage and a bank account and all that other Big Boy stuff. by roping you in and making you part of his "staying clean, but not really" scheme, he makes you in part duplicitous. he doesn't need a banker or a mom, he needs to grow up and face this demon down once and for all..........or not.
in no way do i minimize the struggle to get off crack
been there, done that, traded the t-shirt for another hit