I don't go anywhere where I feel uncomfortable and don't feel "safe".
I give you kudos for walking out.
I don't go to parties, pubs, bars or any place where there is lots of drinking involved. But I have to do that for me. I might never beable to go to any of these places ever again and I am okay with that.
My life is simple, calm and I'm at peace. That is really all I want.