lizatola,
I hope you get to read this, I am thinking of you.
Remember, take care of yourself, do not take any responsibility for his problems.
Do you know what he has been thinking?
Try not to read his mind liz, and stand your ground.
Just the two widely disparate possibilities you mentioned,
either going wild or recommitting to the marriage
has me concerned for you.
I hope you find peace and serenity lizatola.
walking with you,
Beth