I see what you are saying, Lillamy, but I think that saying that the family DESERVES those consequences is a bit unrealistic and unfair also. Didn't Cause it, can't Control it and can't Cure it, right? Also may not be able to just file for divorce the next day and pick up and leave. The family members are not criminals just b/c they are part of an A's household.
Dropping this, as I don't believe we are going to see eye to eye on this. Thanks for your clarifications.