I think I am going to put this a little crudely.
He threatened that he was going to get pu$$y if you didn't put out, you didn't fold. You didn't tell him to go ahead and do it, but you didn't fold. You didn't give into his manipulative bs. Good for you.
Next time maybe consider telling him to go ahead and "get it", then pack his bags for him, or throw them out the window as he is leaving. Then change the locks !!!!!!!!!