Great post, Mrschoices. Thanks for painting a picture of psychological abuse at the hands of your parents and/or other family. When they team up on you is when it's at it's worse. Human history is filled with examples of atrocities that people have done to others, families are no different. It's interesting you point out that they are sick, I sometimes wonder if some people, whether they're related to you or not, are simply inherently just more bad than good.
Going No Contact and/or detaching are new concepts for me, but I should have learned them years ago.