Steavi, welcome to SR. I hope you find as much support and education for your situation here as I have.
As someone has already mentioned, your A has to
want to stop; there's really nothing you can do to help him. You could check this
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html for some clarification on this.
He may not be interested in AA, but I would recommend Alanon as a source of support and information for you. Here's a link to find meetings
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/how-to-find-a-meeting
By reading/posting on this site and attending Alanon meetings, you'll start to see things more clearly.
Again, welcome, and wishing you some peace and calm today.