Originally Posted by
Yogagurl 
....."What is it that is SO good that is keeping me HERE? What promises has he actually followed through with? When's the last time he woke me up with a smile and a cup of coffee on a Saturday morning? When's the last time he asked to get away for the weekend? When's the last time he was [/B] home [/B] and he looked me in the face?".....
@Yogagurl - it was good reading your posts in this thread. I am going through the same thing right now with my addict wife and it's been the most difficult and heart wrenching time of my life. It was about three weeks ago when I suddenly woke up and had the same exact thought as you did above... "what is SO good about this marriage that I am doing everything I can to save it?" Well I can tell you I couldn't think of one single darn thing.
Although we are doing a mutually agreed upon separation instead of divorce at this time, it's been so liberating. I think I smiled today for the first time in about 4 months.
One day at a time...