Originally Posted by
interrupted 
......In my experience, the calls will stop completely once the enabling stops. He doesn't want you, he wants the drug....
@interrupted This is so well said that I broke my forum silence (I joined back and January and have not posted yet!?!?) to thank you. My wife has been addicted to heroin on and off for several years and recently started using crack. She used to call and text me numerous times every day, pretty much when ever she needed something from me.
About three weeks ago I had as much as I could take and kicked her out. She moved in with a guy friend for a few days, smoked all of her cash, and then checked into a rehab when she didn't have any money left for drugs. She initially called me 4-5 times a day from rehab. But when it was clear that I was no longer enabling her she stopped calling. Like as in zero phone calls in two weeks.
Anyway I was trying to understand what was going on with her and when I read your post a light bulb clicked on above my head.... thanks!