Wow Zo, you sound soooooo good.
This made me smile, I realized when I was reading your post, my x taught me alot. He taught me alot of what you xagf taught you. Too bad they weren't open to the lessons we could have shown them.
That is what made me saddest I think, my x was missing so much about what it takes to be happy.
Thanks for the post, I am grateful for your wisdom
Katie xo