Hummm..... That's a tough one! I hope you are able to stay sober either way. Tell your boys they can take you out for pizza and help you move if they want to be there for you. haha.
I live in an expensive place (San Diego) away from family too so I've had these same issues... I stayed in Cali but man its a lot of work to make it out here. If I lived anywhere in the Midwest, for example, I'm sure I could own a big home and have a nicer car and all that jazz but I do love this place so I guess it's worth the extra blood sweat and tears. I totally get where you are coming from though.
We both need to win the lottery. That's all. I decided.
