I get that, I really do. It just bugs me so much that there is something that we can't defeat. We have gone though a lot in our time together and overcome a lot of obstacles, but this, this, I don't think we can over come. I don't think he even really wants to. And that, I know, is where I'm getting stuck. It's like watching someone die of a curable terminal illness that they refuse to treat for what ever reason. I'm angry as heck over the fact that this is treatable and he refuses to seek treatment, he refuses to even try to get better.
I don't understand it!!! I don't get it. If I were diagnosed with something that could kill me, but I could treat you can bet your last dollar that my happy butt is going to be getting that treatment.
Can someone please explain the disconnect for me?
I just need to go to Al-Anon. I'm going to a meeting Saturday.