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Old 07-10-2013, 04:37 PM
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Katiekate
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The strange thing is that what hurts me the most when I think about this doubts is imagining him here at our place alone, his pain and solitude, having to look at the things we built together (we actually work together and spend most of our days side by side) with me gone.
Of course I would feel the same, but imagining my pain just doesn't make me as sad as thinking about his. I've felt this before in other situations, is this normal?

It just seems that leaving him would be such a cruel act, a treason to our beautiful love that I cherish with all my heart... And I just can't get past this contradiction.


It's co dependency honey.

I would venture to say that 90 percent of us feel this way, it is what kept me in it so long, but staying in it, never changed a thing.

Sometimes the most loving thing to do is walk away.

it's a very bad idea to marry this man, he is an alcoholic. He causes you pain.

That's not love sweetie, it;s something different, something dark.
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