Originally Posted by
datingadrinker 
But i feel like the biggest heel in the world right now, but i know i am doing the right thing for me, she has to hit bottom, and see there are real consequences. I pray she makes the right decision, but i won't be an enabler
You are not a heel. You deserve someone who will respect you. When we are engaged in our addiction the only thing we respect is our poison. That is it.