Wishful. You keep those kids out of that car with him! Do not put those children through a hell ride with him because something bad will happen someday as I am living my worst nightmare right now. It will happen to him but you can stop it from happening to your children.
He has not hit rock bottom and neither have you. I know what rock bottom is because I am there right now. My husband is there right now. He can only go 6 more feet before it all over for him. What is your rock bottom going to be? Because I hope and pray it won't be him killing one or both of your children!